Your online resource-guide for the GIFT program at St. James Parish in Menomonee Falls, WI.
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
DOMESTIC CHURCH
If you took a blue book for Advent this year, please go to the page for the 3rd Sunday of Advent. It talks about "The House Church". It reaffirms what you are doing in preparation around your home as part of the "Domestic" church.
Thursday, December 2, 2010
Advent Adventures
Come, Lord Jesus |
There are no hard and fast rules as to the materials you can use but there are a few symbols you will want to include. First of all be sure to start with a circle of some kind. Wreaths are circular with no beginning or end. They remind us of the love that God has for us. It has always been there, and will always continue. A wreath should also have some kind of green base. So you might want to start with a green paper plate, green play dough, a piece of green garland, green crepe paper, or boughs from a pine tree. The next items you will need are 4 candles. Light has always been a symbol of hope in the darkness. The candles on the Advent wreath remind us that Jesus is the light that came into our world. We use 4 candles to represent the 4 weeks of Advent. We usually use 3 purple (or deep blue) candles and 1 pink. Purple is used because, long ago, purple dye was very expensive and became associated with royalty. Because Advent was associated with the coming of our Kind, Jesus, we use purple. On the 3rd Sunday we light the pink candle. This is called Gaudete Sunday or Rejoice Sunday which reminds us that we are over half way to Christmas! You can then add bits of ribbon or pine cones, or red beads or anything that you think would look nice. The last and most important thing is to use your Advent wreath to pray each day. You might like to pray the following prayer after you light your Advent candles or make up your own prayer!
Monthly Mission for December
Pam Dennis and Sandy Ciha are continuing the Monthly Mission service activities started by Isaac Garcia last year. The first Monthly Mission will take place during the December 12th GIFT session. We will be stuffing and delivering stockings to our parish members who reside in the Willow Springs Mobile Park across from St. James. Please bring a few of the following items with you on December 12th for the stockings. Also, remember to dress warm! We will return to St. James by 1:30, when GIFT ends.
The service opportunity is open to all middle and high school students of
St. James. Suggested items for the elderly residents at Willow Springs:
(20-25 stockings)
6th Grade - bring pocket sized tissue packs (the soft ones!) & postage stamps
7th Grade - bring notepads & unscented lotions
8th Grade - bring lifesavers or lemon drop candies, tea or hot chocolate packs
High Schoolers - bring a Christmas ornament
If you have any questions, please contact Pam Dennis fotopubnavy@yahoo.com
or Sandy Ciha sciha@wi.rr.com
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
A Reflection on Sunday's 2nd Reading
Romans 15:7-13 Treat All as Christ
If you were to visit a Benedictine monastery, you would likely see the words "treat all as Christ" posted on a wall or left in a handwritten note on your bed. Benedictines embrace hospitality and approach every stranger as they would Jesus Christ himself. Is hospitality a gift you possess? Does your family welcome the stranger? In today's world, where safety is often the measure of our actions, Paul's instruction to welcome others as Christ welcomes us may seem too risky. But it should never stop us from seeing Christ in each person -- from the homeless person begging for a dollar to the driver who cuts ahead of us in traffic -- and offering him or her the respect we would offer Jesus. Sometimes strangers are even people who are quite close to us. We regard them as strangers because they think or act or believe differently than we do; but we are called to welcome them as well. As a family, share how you can offer the gift of hospitality.
If you have a copy of this Bible, this article appears on p. 1416 of the Catholic Faith & Family Bible, produced by the Center for Ministry Development, published by HarperCollins, 2010.
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
A few announcements about GIFT and this week's sessions
HOUSE OF PEACE
As part of our next GIFT session we will be putting our boxes together for the House of Peace. Please bring all, or some of the food items that are listed on the previous blog entry. We will have the boxes available on that day and we will fill as many as possible to send out to the House of Peace.
We will also be collecting the boxes for Operation Christmas Child at the next GIFT session. There will be a separate table designated for these shoe box gifts.
Thursday, November 4, 2010
HOUSE OF PEACE FOOD BOXES
The House of Peace provides food boxes to over 1,000 needy households at Thanksgiving. At our November GIFT session we will be putting these boxes together. Some of you may be bringing all of the items for a box and some tables may have decided at our last session to split the list of items for the Gift box. Below are the items needed in each box:
- 1 box of mashed potatoes
- 1 bag of stuffing
- 4 cans of green beans
- 4 cans of corn
- 2 cans of cranberry sauce
- 1 - 32 oz. can of sweet potatoes or yams
- 1 box of cake mix
- 1 can of frosting
- 2 boxes of pudding or jell-o
- 2 boxes of cornbread mix
- 2 boxes of macaroni and cheese
The House of Peace will add a $20 gift certificate for a turkey and to help pay for refrigerated foods.
OPERATION CHRISTMAS CHILD
- Use rubberbands around your box to keep the box closed.
- Tape your label to the top of the box that indicates if your gift is for a boy or a girl and check the age of the child your gift is appropriate for. Labels can be found on the pamphlet that was in your October GIFT Packet.
- If you cannot find your pamphlet you can go to www.samaritanspurse.org/ezgive where they have printable boy/girl labels.
- Please include $7 for shipping per shoebox. This can be placed in the envelope which was also a part of the Operation Christmas Child pamphlet and bring this with you to our upcoming session.
- Gift ideas are: school supplies, toys, hygiene items, hard candy, t-shirts, socks, caps, sunglasses, hair clips, toy jewelry, watches, flashlights (with extra batteries). NO war toys, chocolate or food, liquids, medication or breakable items.
HOLLY DAYS
The Activities Committee is looking for help through parishioner donations. If you have books, cd's, dvd's or videos that you are willing to donate the collection box will be in the Gathering Area through November 29th. They are also looking for donations for Theme Baskets and nearly new Christmas items for the Christmas Boutique. See the bulletin for more details if you can help with donations but need more specifics. Remember that the bulletins can be found online at http://www.stjames-parish.net/.
FALL CLEAN UP AT ST. JAMES
They will begin at 8 a.m. and hopefully finish up before noon. There is no need to call ahead - just show up if you are able. This is an event that the whole family can come out and help with so consider joining them this coming Saturday morning!
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
Refelctions on Halloween (and Baptism) from a Friend...
In baptism, we hope for a similar transformation. Paul writes, “for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ.” (Gal 3:27). Symbolized with a white garment, the newly baptized are clothed with Christ. Unlike the Donatello outfit, when we “put on” Christ, it is once for all. He does not come off. We never dry off from our baptism and are continually challenged and strengthened by the Sacrament to take on the very persona and behavior of Jesus Christ. Like the Donatello costume, what happens on the outside hopefully changes our very thoughts, words and actions. The goal, then, of putting on Christ is for the inside to match the outside, so that our very identity becomes who we outwardly claim to be in baptism. For those of us who were baptized as babies, we spend our entire Christian lives trying to grow into the infant-sized baptismal garment. We strain to join our voices with Paul’s in proclaiming that “it is no longer I, but Christ who lives in me” (Gal 2:20).
We return now to the image of young Isaac as “little Donatello”. As I returned home, plastic pumpkin overflowing with candy, I was a happy kid and felt more turtle-like than before. But after the shell came off the effects quickly withered away. Once the costume was boxed up on November 1st, once there was no big event to look forward to, I forgot about the whole thing. With no continual reinforcement, I slid back to my usually quiet six-year-old self.
This too is a danger for us all -- forgetting our new identity in baptism. “Every Christian is to become a little Christ,” C.S. Lewis writes. “The whole purpose of becoming a Christian is simply nothing else.” We are continually challenged to appropriate our identity as “little Christs”, to grow in faith, hope, and love. This becomes especially difficult when there is no big “faith event” on the horizon to look forward to. In a world that pulls us in hundreds of different directions at once, we need constant reminders and help to be “little Christs”; we need the St. James community and our family to ensure we recognize and live into our baptismal clothes.
This Halloween, as we see the “little superheroes”, “little Buzz Lightyears”, and “little princesses” parading from house to house, may they serve as a reminder to baptism. May the automatic taking on of personalities by the trick-or-treaters inspire us to take on the personality of Christ. And may we support each other in our journey, no matter where we are in our faith.
Hope all is well in the land of the Packers!
Blessings,
Isaac
Thursday, October 21, 2010
The Gift of Silence
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
A Service Opportunity!
Wisconsin Products Pavilion, State Fair Park
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Good Deed Beads
Safeguarding All God's Children
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Being a Domestic Church (A church of the home)
We are Church
Today in the United States, there are an esimated 31,000 lay ecclesial(church) ministers serving in Catholic parishes. St. James Staff is part of that group. Many of you do thank us when you see us "for all the hard work you do ." We appreciate that very much. We appreciate all of your cooperation and volunteering you do at S. James.
This weekend, there will be a commisisioning service for all the volunteers who serve in the ministries of passing on the faith to children, youth and adults. When the category is announced and you are part of,i.e. teach in the GIFT program, please come forward.
Always remember that by virtue of our Baptism, ALL are called to spread the Good News of the Gospel by our words & actions. We are all commissioned to pass on our Catholic faith.
Second Grade Sacraments
Thursday, September 16, 2010
This & that
What a great start to our 2010-11 year of GIFT! See the picture.
53 of the 73 registered families attended the retreat either on Saturday or Sunday last weekend. We did not video tape the adult segment this time, so those who missed a fun time, it is VERY IMPORTANT that you pick up your packet in the Gathering Area this weekend, Sept. 18-19(on table with green cloth).
-The Calendar -Hand-out sheet from Daryl’s Adult presentation on the early
-K-4-Gr. 5 materials Christian community
-Food schedule - Information on optional adult small faith groups in the
home(explained by Nate Lasnoski, one of the GIFT participants).
-Service opportunities
WE ARE THE CHURCH is our theme for this year. We saw excellent of this already at the retreat.
As a review for all the GIFT participants, please read again these Scripture passages sometime this month: Acts 2:14-21, Acts4:42-47 and Acts 15:1-28.
Be sure to check the Gospel question of the week in the bulletin and discuss it with you family, either before going to Mass or after. Some families even have someone read the Gospel from their copy of At Home with the Word on the way to Mass.
Thank you to all the people who helped teach the children during the retreat. We are also grateful to the Knights of Columbus for providing our wonderful pancake breakfast on Sunday. They donated their time & the food.
Sue will be attaching a family activity.
Next month we will be distributing the House of Peace information for the poor as a service project.
Next GIFT core meeting is on Monday, October 18 at 7PM in the cafeteria. WE NEED HELP! We need input from you, the GIFT participants, to shape the GIFT program, to plan and implement the ideas for each session. Please consider being on this important committee. Call Sue or S. Carol Ann for more info.
Family Prayer
The Practice of Prayer
When I was a young mother I wanted to help my children to be faithful to daily prayer. I wanted it to be simple enough that they would be able to do it without me, but also meaningful. I came up with a 3 question system for them to use.
What can you thank God for today?
What do you need to say you’re sorry for?
What do you need to ask God to help you with?
Over the years this has been a good format for them and for our family. It is a prayer process that we can do together or individually. Twenty three years later, it is still a way that we pray. Try it for a week and see how it works for you.
Parenting class for parents of teens
September 27th through November 1st
(6 consecutive Monday Evenings)
6:30 – 8:00 p.m. in the Youth Room (#1)
For parents of Middle and High School Youth
Have you ever wondered why the techniques that your parents used for child rearing don’t work so well for you. Do you wonder how to be a more effective parent? Would you like to gain some new insights and tools to help you parent?
The Love and Logic method might be the answer. This method teaches parents how to hold their kids accountable for their actions by locking in empathy, love, and understanding, prior to telling kids what the consequences of their actions will be. This method causes the child to see their parent as the “good guy” and the child’s poor decision as the “bad guy”. When it’s done on a regular basis, kids develop an internal voice that says, “I wonder how much pain I’m going to cause for myself with my next decision?” Kids who develop this internal voice become more capable of standing up to peer pressure. This common sense approach provides parents with easy to learn skills that create respect, responsibility, and good decision making in youth.
Love and Logic rests on four scientifically-based principles:
1. Logical consequences delivered with empathy
2. Collective thinking and problem-solving
3. Shared control
4. Adult-child relationships that build mutual respect and self esteem
If you think this is something for you, or you have questions, call Sue at 253-2904 to reserve your space today!
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Thursday, May 6, 2010
The Month of Mary
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Holy Week is almost here!
- March 26th, 6:30 p.m. - Stations of the Cross
- March 26th, 5:30 - 9:30 p.m. - 4th/5th Grade Retreat
- March 27th, 10:30 a.m. - Reconciliation Service in Church
- April 1st, 7:00 p.m. - Holy Thursday Liturgy
- April 2nd, 1:00 & 7:00 p.m. - Good Friday Services
- April 3rd, 8:00 p.m. - Holy Saturday Liturgy
- April 4th, 8:15 & 10:15 a.m. - Easter Liturgies
All of these events are wonderful ways to observe this week. At Home you might want to eat a meal in candle light and talk about how important shared meals are (Jesus last meal). You might want to watch a movie or read the scriptures about the passion (Good Friday). On Holy Saturday you might want to prepare Easter eggs and talk about how eggs are a sign of new life. Perhaps you can share some of these symbols with other. What ever you do this Holy Week, be sure to pause and ponder the awesomeness of this story of our faith. It is truly an act of love by our God.
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
Images and the movie from the GIFT Stations of the Cross
This icon is called The Virgin of Vladimir. No one knows it's painter. Click here for more information on the Virgin of Vladimir.
This is a Russian icon of the crucifixion of Jesus. I haven't found it's author or any other information.
Video from Youtube of the sixth station
May these images bless you during Lent!
MINI-WORKCAMP
CHECK OUT FACEBOOK!
EASTER BASKETS
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
4th & 5th Grade Retreat Information
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Praying your Way through Lent
How is your household doing with the practice of Prayer this Lent?
Are you finding the time to pray each day?
- Here are a few suggestions of some moments/methods of prayer that you might try.
Try keeping a prayer jar or bowl with all the people, events, intentions, and requests that you want to pray for. Try to add to your jar once a day.
Sing your favorite hymn from Church while driving in the car or taking a shower.
Pray for the person in need when you hear an Ambulance siren.
Say a short prayer of hope such as, "God help us to use the give of this day to its fullest" when you wake up or wake up your child to a new day.
Pray at bedtime for someone who did a kindness to you today. (ideas taken from Tom McGrath's "Raising Faith Filled Kids")
What is your favorite way to pray? Maybe you can share it here. Whatever form your prayers take, the most important thing is to keep praying!
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
District 4/5 High School Senior Retreat (2010)
Contact Isaac in the CF office for more information.
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
2010 Lenten Cluster Mission Video
Thursday, February 18, 2010
Become a Fan of St. James!
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A Reminder...
Thursday, February 4, 2010
February Household Activity
Parish Cluster Lenten Mission
The theme, "Unleashing the Reconciling Power of Jesus in Our Lives", will focus on our need as Catholics to experience reconciliation. This three evening session will examine a unique view of reconciliation. The mission will conclude with a reconciliation service on Wednesday.
Presenters are Fr. Don Hying, Rector of St. Francis Seminary and Sr. Fran Cunningham, SSSF, Director of the Milwaukee Archdiocesan Office of World Mission Ministries.
If you are unable to attend in the evening, there will be an 8:15 liturgy each morning at St. Agnes, followed by a light breakfast and video repeat of the previous night's presentation.
For further information contact Sr. Carol Ann Jaeger at 251-0897 ext. 203 or Mike George at 414-358-2833.
Fasting with Friends
Come to church to pray with the community at 6:00 pm and either before or after prayer come to the community center to fast with a simple meal of homemade soup, bread & beverages. To give alms, donations can again be made to Operation Rice Bowl throughout Lent. Any questions you can call Sue Devine-Simon at 251-0879 ext. 201.
If you would like to help with the soup supper or contribute ingredients for the soup please call Sue. Items needed for the soup are vegetable broth, carrots, celery, broccoli, onions, velveeta cheese, noodles and other frozen vegetables. Donations can be brought to the CF office by February 14th.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Monthly Mission - February: Paint the House
If you have any questions, please contact Isaac in the CF office (info on the flyer / in the Facebook group).
Monday, February 1, 2010
GIFT Video - January 10/12
GIFT - January 10, 2010 from St. James Parish on Vimeo.
GIFT VIdeo - November 8/10
GIFT - November 8, 2009 from St. James Parish on Vimeo.
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
FOOD FOR HAITI
(see mapquest link below)
JAN 30th from 9-3
Kids Against Hunger provides dried food packages that feed a balanced diet of basic nutritional needs for six people each. Participants assemble packages in a supervised, sanitary setting in an assembly line fashion in 90 minute shifts. To date, over 40,000,000 Kids Against Hunger meals have been distributed here in the U.S. and around the world. We plan on packaging 500,000 meals during the 3 day event. Transportation and a destination in Haiti has been arranged, waiting for this life saving food. You can help bring healing and save lives. You must call the number listed below to register.
WHO? Any person, whether a child or a senior citizen, if able to sit or stand for up to 90 minutes filling bags on an assembly line, can help fill the packages although children and teens must be accompanied by an adult. This is a great family service opportunity!
WHEN? Thursday, Jan 28 from 6-9 PM Friday, Jan 29 from 6-9 PM Saturday, Jan 30 from 9-3
WHERE? Westwood Business Center W229N1420 Westwood Dr Waukesha, WI 53086 (Next Door to American TV near I 94)
REGISTER BY PHONE AT 262/251-9870 (Phone line will be active starting Thursday Jan 21st) You will be signing up for a 90 minute shift. You must register to reserve your place. Each participant should bring $25 to cover the cost of the food and materials used for the food, packing and shipping. The $25 donation is tax deductible. Checks can be made payable to Kids Against Hunger, a 501c3 non-profit corporation. If the cost is more than you can afford at this time, we have pledge sheets available on the table outside of the CF Office that you can pick up or I can attach a copy through email upon request. The pledge sheet would be a way of involving friends and neighbors in covering some of your participation cost.
IF YOU WANT TO HELP BUT CAN’T COME YOURSELF, consider a Tax Deductible Donation made to: Kids Against Hunger at PO Box 442 Sussex, WI 53089 Or you could sponsor someone else to work!
Directions: http://www.mapquest.com/maps?address=W229n1687+Westwood+Dr+Ste+E&city=Waukesha&state=WI&zipcode=53186
More information at Facebook http://bit.ly/KAHHaiti
Email info: Pastor Tom Kent, Christ Our Savior Lutheran Church
Office: 262/246-6537
Cell: 414/531-8006
Sunday, January 10, 2010
Monthly Mission - January: Valentines for Prisoners
If you have any questions, please contact Isaac (info on the flyer or in the bulletin)